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Which Gender Do You Get Along Better With? - 4/26/2008 11:37:37 AM
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humbleinspirit
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On forums, I seem to get along better with women, but in person, I seem to get along with men better instead.
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RE: Which Gender Do You Get Along Better With? - 4/26/2008 11:46:11 AM
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broyce1981
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I vote for depends. In some topics of conversation (relationships) I get along better with women. In others (baseball) I get along better with men. Still some (theology) it doesn't seem to make a difference. So I guess I can easily relate to either gender, but sometimes it just depends on the situation.
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RE: Which Gender Do You Get Along Better With? - 4/26/2008 4:36:52 PM
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When I was younger, I always got along better with males. The older I've become and the closer to God, I've found that I spend most of my time with women. I still don't like a lot of the things that interest them or that they talk about, but I relate to them better now.
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RE: Which Gender Do You Get Along Better With? - 4/26/2008 7:44:56 PM
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Dakotasunbeam
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When I was younger I got along with men better. I had basically thought women were complicated, they got their feelings hurt easily, could be petty, and indirect. But soon, I realized I was actually hindering God's work in my life, and more importantly His work through my life. So, I began to study His word, and study what it truly means to love--not just the mushy, kind stuff. But the rubber-meets the road type stuff. And then I realized, that what I had thought about women and men was just a lie from the evil one. I could get along with others if I wanted to. I had a major paradigm shift and have never been the same again. I get along well with women and men now, and children and animals.  God has does some amazing work in my life when I lay down my pride and dare to step beyond my comfort zone. That has been such a blessing in my life! God challenges me, and then I grow.
Good question!
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RE: Which Gender Do You Get Along Better With? - 4/26/2008 11:40:08 PM
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Prairiehiker
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I tend to get along better with men because I seem to have more in common with them as far as interests goes. I like sports and the outdoors which makes it easier for me to relate with them. My best friend is female though.
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RE: Which Gender Do You Get Along Better With? - 4/27/2008 3:40:12 AM
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For me, it's less of a gender thing and more of an age thing. I have always enjoyed having older friends.
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RE: Which Gender Do You Get Along Better With? - 4/28/2008 9:29:53 AM
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AlwaysR8chel
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........ I'm more comfortable with men. They are 'safer'...
Sometimes women can be so hurtful to each other.... I don't get it.
There was a point in my life where I realized that I needed to learn how to be better friends with women.....
So God put me in jail.... 
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And I intend to do more than just merely exist on this planet; I intend to live my life. " -Sharon-Marie
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RE: Which Gender Do You Get Along Better With? - 4/28/2008 11:11:59 AM
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AdrianaS
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Well I get along with different persons, both genders and ages most of the time.
I do enjoy and make connections with some people more than others for sure, it much depends why and how as life is full of surprises and seasons. And the most cool thing is to be surprise by the amazing "click" that happens when connections and keeping flowing are made!
Of course there are tendencies many times are into places already, the conversations and things in common, personality matching, real interest to meet others and to know what they are about, open to learn and express etc that I expect already pleasant stuff as conversations goes, still people are just unique.
The different genders individuals in my life make different contributions, of course. The exchanges I have with females friends are different to those that I have with males ones. The females ones are much more organic and deep and free because they are my equals and sisters. The males I feel cannot flow so organic because males do tend to get more emotionaly attached and may think they are in love with you etc because many males are not used to have organic relationships within their own gender to begin with, as women have with each other as deep friends etc Still when you do find males friend who are not so much needy emotionaly and trully understand the dynamics of exchangings of pure mature friendships with woman sister friend, it is really wonderful contribution and investiment we sow in each others life and trully reap good things that help us grow and etc.
I do love my close friends, both genders.
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