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FunBetty -> RE: Fun Betty's Therapy Center and Cookie Shoppe and Flirt Zone (10/13/2008 2:03:52 PM)
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Attention Attention: Serious Post ahead:
Friday morning I logged off of CW as a result of hitting the brink of frustration. I wonder if I revealed too much information publicly in regards to Ed and I.
The point of the matter is: five months ago when Ed and I started communicating we both put a mutual friend in charge of helping to keep us accountable. Some of the initial "rules" leaked out onto CW and you are probably familiar with them. We initially both made light of "Mama Tink" and playing along, but not knowing what level it would escalate to.
Five months later, Ed and I are still communicating and building in our friendship. While I still go to our friend for that accountability and she knows what is going on, it has been frustrating to be "tattled on" endlessly by so many people. Ed and I are both 30-something year olds, with a well and capable head on our shoulders. We have kept reality in check and are fully aware of our actions and able to make the right decisions in our communication with each other and with God.
With that said, I do not need other people to tattle in such a public forum that I feel like I am in junior high again. If you personally have a problem with the level of communication Ed and I hold, then by all means let me know. But a public forum is not a place to be "jokingly" tell us what we should and shouldn't do.
I got burned out from the experience and stepped away from CW for an undetermined amount of time. There are some people from here that I miss, but I don't want to go back knowing that I am still living in a fishbowl under constant scrutiny. I haven't decided when and under what circumstances to return, so if you do not see me posting, you will know why. All I am saying now is to be mindful of what you say online, because even in a "joking" or "fun" situation your words can have the potential to hurt other people.
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