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delete123 -> RE: RE:(2) Women do you find this weird (3/24/2008 9:56:56 PM)

I prefer to get to know someone first before I consider dating.

When a man that I do not know hits on me (Especially if they are relentless. I rely on my old time favorite) when they insist on my phone number, I give them the number to Dial A Prayer

Just my two cents
CRH



McKate -> RE: RE:(2) Women do you find this weird (3/24/2008 10:10:27 PM)

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ORIGINAL: crh737

I prefer to get to know someone first before I consider dating.

When a man that I do not know hits on me (Especially if they are relentless. I rely on my old time favorite) when they insist on my phone number, I give them the number to Dial A Prayer

Just my two cents
CRH


Hehe...did you know that there's actually a Rejection Hotline? Go to RejectionHotline.com and they'll give you the number for your area. If some weirdo hits on you, just give him the number and he'll receive a funny automated message when he tries to call you.



F5_warning -> RE: RE:(2) Women do you find this weird (3/25/2008 2:34:48 AM)

If he appears creepy then NO!

If he seems like somebody I'm looking at already fine.

For me it would be less likely to get a good response if done at a mall though, that can get strange quick.



captainfraulein -> RE: Women do you find this weird (3/27/2008 5:02:15 PM)

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ORIGINAL: WhiteRoseBlessings

Well, that's where I differ vastly from other people in regards to dating.

I don't date to get to know someone; I date because I have gotten to know them.

Case in point; I met my late husband at a coffee shop. We had many wonderful conversations in that coffee shop. 5 months later, we went on our first date together.

Do you have a hang-out place? Do you go to church? What about some of your classes? Any of these places have any women that you could get to know?


Last night I went to a Starbucks close to wear I live after I went to the library, to order a skinny decaf mocha "weirdly could you put some whip cream on it"?

The young guys in the shop were all under 30 to me (I can't always tell age though). I assumed they were chatty since it was late and I was one of two customers. He said "I hope you don't mind here if I sit down here talking like this to you."

One guy sat down chatting to me as he finished my mocha. He asked me "how was your day? great weather..." Got me to telling him I had a good day "except I want a job"...and "I want inside sales"...and he said to me "he was looking to move up in the world, loved his job at Starbucks..." which I heard as "move up here" so I asked "where are you from?" ...he corrected me...

And anyway, I got my mocha and was walking out...he said "Have a great evening...[my first name]!"

I stopped, looked around, then just walked out of there. I was tempted to go back and ask "how did you know my first name?" but I honestly did not want that conversation.

I am clueless how he knew me. I just know he looked way too young to me and chances are high that he is not a Xtian, plus I have the feeling he chats to females all the time.

Shoot, for all I know, he was not picking up on me and he was just being friendly.

I got a weirder story from the DMV...another guy waaay to young for me, a week ago. "Do girls date guys at the DMV?"

I have no idea why suddenly guys too young for me are chatting to me...but I am not moved.

I just have never reacted well to very outgoing guys (especially if they are out of my age range) ...I think I am too introverted. I like to get to know a guy first before I would go out on a real date.

It sounds like the other Crosswalk rose...like those were some magical times getting to know your late husband in a coffee shop. *Sigh* [:)]



Lycea -> RE: RE:(2) Women do you find this weird (4/1/2008 3:05:29 PM)

Yes! I am a get-to-know-you before I date you kind of person. (Although, now I am just a happily married person)



preserved -> RE: Women do you find this weird (4/1/2008 5:37:47 PM)

johnnie2g...No it is not wierd...men are just being men...However, it depends on what is said that determine the outcome...Women need to know how to respond when approached.

I recently was at a service station...a guy said excuse me do you mind if I pay you a compliment? If so I said no...he then proceed to indicate how attractive I was and if I was still single...I simply replied thank you and yes I am still single...and walk away to do what I came their to do in the first place. He went on his merry way..It is how the response is given back...



Anamchara -> RE: Women do you find this weird (4/4/2008 12:39:18 AM)

Well someone who just walks up to me and starts hitting on me makes me run as fast as possible. I am a very social person too, but still I prefer to atleast had some form of interaction with the person before they would approach me like such. Personal preferance I guess.



rgod -> RE: RE:(2) Women do you find this weird (4/9/2008 9:47:19 AM)

I don't mind as long as he isn't pushy about it or rude. I'm not in any place where I see single men in my age range on a regular basis. So, it is kind of hard for me to get to know someone before dating them. So, this is my option. All things being equal, I'd prefer to get to know him first, but that is just not feasible for me.



christianbookworm -> RE: RE:(2) Women do you find this weird (4/9/2008 7:33:50 PM)

I think that a lot of it depends on your approach. I've been in situations when I've had guys come up to me and I knew they didn't want to get to know me better except in the biblical way..lol.
If you are sincere, just chat to say hello...a new friend could eventually lead to a relationship, but don't go into it with hat attitude.
Blessings,
Lisa



azroadrunner -> RE: RE:(2) Women do you find this weird (4/9/2008 11:55:53 PM)

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ORIGINAL: christianbookworm
If you are sincere, just chat to say hello...a new friend could eventually lead to a relationship, but don't go into it with hat attitude.
Blessings,
Lisa

Great advice!



crm4souls -> RE: Women do you find this weird (4/10/2008 3:01:29 AM)

It's only weird if the guy is weird...



babesummy -> RE: RE:(2) Women do you find this weird (4/19/2008 7:23:45 AM)

Turnoff no matter how great looking he is



Silverflame180 -> RE: RE:(2) Women do you find this weird (4/22/2008 8:45:03 PM)

That depends. Do I know the guy? If not, then this is usually a turnoff to me. If a random guy just comes out of nowhere and starts hitting on you, to me, seems too much like he's desperate. Maybe it's just me, but I get creeped out when guys do that.



MsSara -> RE: Women do you find this weird (4/25/2008 12:20:41 PM)

I think it would be funny but I am very outgoing and love to meet new people. I have a feeling most women would be freaked out and run the opposite direction, or either just think you were crazy. :D Maybe you should stick with this approach though, and find the one who doesn't do that!



vixir -> RE: Women do you find this weird (4/26/2008 10:59:04 PM)

Not really. Like Szaftoo said, it depends on their approach. If it's a classy, gentle approach, then no -- I don't find it weird. However, if they come up to talking all disgusting and disrespectfully, then I am definitely turned off and pretty afraid at that point. [:'(]



Gallivant -> RE: Women do you find this weird (5/3/2008 12:21:10 PM)

It's happened a couple of times to me, I do find it weird and feel extremely uncomfortable.



ladyamythist -> RE: RE:(2) Women do you find this weird (5/3/2008 12:50:34 PM)

yes, weird...there are too many sick folks out there...what you describe is not what a gentleman or saved guy would do. i would give the guy the boot and kick him to the curb!!!



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