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blessednw -> RE: Contemplating Divorce... HELP (5/22/2008 6:43:48 PM)
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good word, keeping faith,
And sister cmlsjp, I urge you to repent for your unfaithfulness at whatever level. If you are truly repentant and walk it out on a daily basis, turning from sin and the entertaining of fantasy, the Lord will forgive you and deliver you from the heavy power of a seducing spirit, which wants to destroy the believer.
He can also begin to give you a renewed focus on the Lord, rather than the faults/sins of your husband. It is not a good thing to overfocus on your husband's issues as it can truly blind you to your own. The Lord WILL deal with him, and then, as you grow in trust with the Lord, you can find that God could begin to give you His understanding and perspective on your husband's needs, so you can pray for him. That is a godly response to trials with our loved ones.
I warn you that if you look for other reasons to leave or go the route to divorce, you will suffer in other ways you have not yet suffered. It is not God's way. He will give you everything you need to walk in godliness if you turn to Him.
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