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zamdad -> RE: Who will stand? (5/4/2008 5:53:25 AM)
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CherishedbyGod More of my view on taking a "stand" against sin... I would love it if unbelievers and Christians that are struggling with sin would read my devotional Just to show another side Please see post #579... http://forums.christianity.com/m_1230561/mpage_24/tm.htm I read it (579). I can't see why we seem to be so far apart on this issue. I don't think anyone here has been about "exposing" the sin of another. At least, exposing the sin to the rest of the community. If any exposure of sin is taking place, it's letting the person caught in the trap see what others see. You sem to be missing the points made about caring for the person caught in sin, walking along side them, mentoring, discipling, loving them. I get the sense that you are being led by your emotions with regard to this issue. You spoke about being disturbed by how the suicidal woman in the jail was being treated and went on to say that no one who is suicidal should be treated that way. While I can understand your setniments, I also see your reasoning as guided by emotions. I gave the illustration of Joe in an earlier post. There is another man, Fred, who is in his 90's. he was convicted of molesting a girl from the time she was eight until she was 16. Fred says he is a Christian. He carries his Bible with him everywhere and is always reading it. He can quote scripture on demand. He considers himself a travelling evangelist as he hitchhikes about the countryside seeking souls to convert. Fred is very convincing. If I had not gotten to know Fred through working with him in sex offender treatment, I would be convinced he is the real thing. Fred claims he never has a deviant sexual thought about anyone. He says that it is a sin for him to commit such sexual thoughts. Yet, aside from the three women he has been married to, he has had over 20 sexual partners in his life. He has had sex with women he met at dance clubs. Yet, according to Fred, he never had an erotic thought, all these women seduced him. As for his child victim, he claims that she asked him to teach her and that he felt obligated to teach her about sex. While he claims he has no erotic thoughts because it would be an abomination to God, and because he is in his 90's, he also admits to masturbating several times per week to images of watching a father and daughter have sex. As I said, if this was not something I heard come from his mouth as a result of taking the time to get beneath the mask, I would be convinced that Fred is a religous leader with great clout. While he professes to be a true believer in Christ, he usees that persona to gain access to victims. His victims are not just the women he meets, but their children as well. Another man I met through my profession is Ralph. Ralph had been a cocaine addict all of his adult life. He also has three convictions for sex crimes on his record. Ralph found God in jail and came out to begin studying God's word. He was ordained as a minister after his release. Yet, he fell back into cocain use. After being caught with cocaine, he was sent to treatment for the 12th time. He walked away from the treatment center and failed to fill out his sex offender registration. he was caught and jailed for filure to register. When I met with him in the jail, he refused to cooperate with me. he refused to answer my questions. He did, however, want to talk about the Bible. He used the fact that he was an ordained minister to try and get his release from jail. The judge released him and instructed him to go live with his brother. Instead, he skipped the state and was arrested there after raping an 83 year old woman. The point of all this is, that we have to love the lost, but we have to love them enough to let them know we truly care about them and those they come into contact with. We have to be willing to walk the journey with them. If they get knocked down along the way, let them know we're still there and that our hand is out. But, if they continue to choose the wrong path and are insisting on manipulating others, that we will cut them off. If we're led by our emotions, we will get manipulated, used, rejected, and wounded.
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