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lightshineon -> RE: Grand Theft Auto 4 is complete smut (5/9/2008 10:58:09 AM)
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TinkerBelle sorry if you think I am stupid, but I know that I have an angry, bullied child, and playing destructive violent games are not for her, it fuels her rage. quote:
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ORIGINAL: earthless There are some more naive and easily influenced kids out there, more than others. And parents need to be aware of that and take appropriate steps. It's all a matter of observation and perception. You just have to see how your child is with certain influences and adjust accordingly. quote:
Neither my sister or me were censored as kids and we turned out better (as bad as that sounds) than all the other church kids around us that ended rebelling BIG time - getting into drugs, not in the faith, unwed-pregnancies, running away, getting into gangs, drug dealing, etc.. I had no boundries growing up and I am a perfect example of how no boundries AND lack of proper teaching can screw a kid up. By the time my parents decided to get into church I was at the age where I knew everything and my parents were morons. I try to do things differently...I'm very strict on somethings, and other things I'm not. Again, it's a balance. quote:
This thread reminds me of the current book I am reading - it is John Stossell's (from 20/20) book where he busts media perpetuated myths, and one of the topics he discusses is about video games and people's claims that it is related to school violence, etc.. We can pin this back on retired general Grossman's book where he claims video games train kids to be killers. Yet none of his claims were substantiated by any actual research or any statistics. His entire book was based on emotional, rather than logical appeal. And we live in a time when some Christians love going off of emotion and not truth, not facts. John Stossel also points out that he flat out made up certain "facts", such as the military using games like Quake to desensitize soldiers to violence and killing. Stossel's calls to the military yielded denials of Grossman's claim. He then goes on to point out that all the subsequent lawmakers, authors, etc against video games all cite Grossman as a source despite the fact that he is not an authority on the subject, nor has he done any actual research. He then finishes by saying what a lot of us have been - let parents decide, not the government. *sigh* I love when you make sense. Gives me all sorts of warm and fuzzies. [:)] I abhor when people say, "Look at the Columbine kids...they played video games..." A LOT of kids play video games. Don't assume that ALL kids are going to be violent because of a choice few. That's like saying that women are going to cheat on their husbands and sleep around because of 'Desperate Housewives' or that people are going to jump off buildings just to see if they can fly because of 'Heroes'.
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