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RE: Royal.Fortress (Kim's) June Bug-Catching Thread - 6/13/2008 10:11:05 AM   
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Thanks so much everyone - we are enraptured with her!! Because she's so tiny, they want us to wake her every 2 hours to feed ... so needless to say, I'm not getting much sleep ... especially when feeding takes so long ... but she's nursing wonderfully and we are both doing well. Really, I feel fantastic considering I was in labour less than 24 hours ago!



I don't think she's that tiny - my ds was 6lb 6oz (at 3 days overdue) and Gwen is only a little less than that.


So glad that you're doing ok!

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RE: Royal.Fortress (Kim's) June Bug-Catching Thread - 6/13/2008 11:24:16 AM   
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What a beauty!!!

Congratulations, Kim and Brad!

Welcome to the world, little Gwendolyn Eleanor!


(Hey, she was born on my nephew Jacob's 9th birthday, so she's got at least one birthday twin around here.)

Way to go, mama!!!! She's finally here, and such a little doll at that!

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RE: Royal.Fortress (Kim's) June Bug-Catching Thread - 6/13/2008 12:27:26 PM   
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She is beautful Kim! Congratulations!

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RE: Royal.Fortress (Kim's) June Bug-Catching Thread - 6/13/2008 2:48:26 PM   
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Congratulations on your beautiful girl!

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RE: Royal.Fortress (Kim's) June Bug-Catching Thread - 6/13/2008 3:38:15 PM   
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Congratulations Kim! She is beautiful! Love all the dark hair! Welcome baby Gwen!

I agree, she is tiny! Eden was 6 lbs 4 ozs 19 inces long and even the newborn size clothes are big on her. And the newborn size diapers are too small too, we have to fold the top down. When we left the hospital she was 5 lbs 14 ozs, so pretty much the same size!

Isn't labor amazing? I was so proud of myself and so full of energy afterwards! I tell everyone it was the most terrible and wonderful thing I have ever done!

Congrats again! Can't wait to hear to whole story!

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RE: Royal.Fortress (Kim's) June Bug-Catching Thread - 6/14/2008 5:31:26 PM   
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I tell everyone it was the most terrible and wonderful thing I have ever done!


I 100% concur!!!

LADIES, I NEED SERIOUS PRAYER!!!!

It had been a while since Gwen had peed/pooped, so we called the midwife to come over and check her out - and make sure BF'ing is going well. She's already lost 10% of her body weight!!! She's feeding well and DEFINITELY getting everything I'm making, she just really needs my milk to come in. The plan is currently wake her every 2 hours, feed on one side and have Brad give her 0.5 oz formula (by syringe) while I pump the other side. I'm starting to take fenugreek and blessed thistle in the hopes that my milk will come in speedily. If she continues to lose, we'll have to go into the hospital, and I do NOT want that - I want my baby to thrive on my milk .

PLEASE PRAY FOR MY MILK TO COME IN ASAP!!!!! My midwife is very confident that once my milk comes in, this will be a non-issue since she's such a good nurser. I'll explain more about why they think it's happening later when I write out my birth story, but please, please, please pray!

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RE: Royal.Fortress (Kim's) June Bug-Catching Thread - 6/14/2008 5:47:05 PM   
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I tell everyone it was the most terrible and wonderful thing I have ever done!


I 100% concur!!!

LADIES, I NEED SERIOUS PRAYER!!!!

It had been a while since Gwen had peed/pooped, so we called the midwife to come over and check her out - and make sure BF'ing is going well. She's already lost 10% of her body weight!!! She's feeding well and DEFINITELY getting everything I'm making, she just really needs my milk to come in. The plan is currently wake her every 2 hours, feed on one side and have Brad give her 0.5 oz formula (by syringe) while I pump the other side. I'm starting to take fenugreek and blessed thistle in the hopes that my milk will come in speedily. If she continues to lose, we'll have to go into the hospital, and I do NOT want that - I want my baby to thrive on my milk .

PLEASE PRAY FOR MY MILK TO COME IN ASAP!!!!! My midwife is very confident that once my milk comes in, this will be a non-issue since she's such a good nurser. I'll explain more about why they think it's happening later when I write out my birth story, but please, please, please pray!



Why aren't you feeding her from both sides per feeding? Will be praying

It's completely normal for babies to lose even up to 20% of their birthweight after they're born. As long as she's swallowing and eating at least every 2 hours she'll be good. Is she jaundiced? Is that why you're worried or is she dehydrated? I'd recommend not pumping and instead just feeding her from *both* breasts every feeding (if she'll stay awake for that). Supplementing with formula can cause her to *not* want to eat from your breasts every 2 hours since it's broken down slower and fills their tummies more than the colostrum would...which would cause your milk to come in slower (if she's not eating frequently enough on them).

You don't have to wait 2 hours to feed her...you can feed her and offer her your breast everytime she wakes up from a nap. Breast milk is a supply/demand thing...the more she requires of them the quicker your milk will come in. Have you called a lactation consultant?

You're doing a great job, Kim! It is pretty stressful (at least I find it so) starting a new breastfeeding relationship and thinking in the back of your head that you're the one sustaining your wee babe now. It will all work out, I promise!



edited for information/encouragement...

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RE: Royal.Fortress (Kim's) June Bug-Catching Thread - 6/14/2008 6:21:24 PM   
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Praying your milk comes in full force...tonight!

ETA...I agree with Kim about feeding her from both breasts at each feeding, particularly because she is a good nurser. THEN if she's still hungry, give her a bit of formula like th midwife suggested. Her sucking will help your breasts kick in much better than a pump will.


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RE: Royal.Fortress (Kim's) June Bug-Catching Thread - 6/14/2008 6:34:35 PM   
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It's completely normal for babies to lose even up to 20% of their birthweight after they're born. As long as she's swallowing and eating at least every 2 hours she'll be good.

I disagree with that statement. It is not healthy for a baby to lose that much weight. Up to 10% is normal....but after that it is not normal or good...and definitely not 20%

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I'd recommend not pumping and instead just feeding her from *both* breasts every feeding (if she'll stay awake for that). Supplementing with formula can cause her to *not* want to eat from your breasts every 2 hours since it's broken down slower and fills their tummies more than the colostrum would...which would cause your milk to come in slower (if she's not eating frequently enough on them).

that part I do agree with. If you are going to pump then do it every other hour between feedings, but let her nurse off of both sides at every feeding so that her sucking will stimulate the milk to come in faster. She can do what no pump will be able to do. I also wouldn't do formula...not at this point. It will digest differently in her system and could make her not want to nurse like she needs to for your milk to kick in, and that is definitely the opposite of what you need right now.


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RE: Royal.Fortress (Kim's) June Bug-Catching Thread - 6/14/2008 7:17:43 PM   
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My LC for Nadia told me that when she had eaten off of both sides and still seemed hungry to go ahead and offer the first side again. She said the breasts are always producing milk and there will be some in there.

Once I started drinking Mother's Milk Tea by Traditional Medicinals, which has fenugreek in it, my milk came in almost immediately. Just keep nursing. The more your breasts are stimulated, the faster it will come in. Keep hydrated, eat well and rest, rest will also help it to produce.

Oh, and I will be praying.

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RE: Royal.Fortress (Kim's) June Bug-Catching Thread - 6/15/2008 2:58:20 AM   
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It's completely normal for babies to lose even up to 20% of their birthweight after they're born. As long as she's swallowing and eating at least every 2 hours she'll be good.

I disagree with that statement. It is not healthy for a baby to lose that much weight. Up to 10% is normal....but after that it is not normal or good...and definitely not 20%




So very sorry if I was mistaken in that stat...I completely believed that I had read (or heard) that up to 15-20% of birthweight loss was normal in some infants...

The rest of my advice I stand by...

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RE: Royal.Fortress (Kim's) June Bug-Catching Thread - 6/15/2008 8:42:16 AM   
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It's completely normal for babies to lose even up to 20% of their birthweight after they're born. As long as she's swallowing and eating at least every 2 hours she'll be good.

I disagree with that statement. It is not healthy for a baby to lose that much weight. Up to 10% is normal....but after that it is not normal or good...and definitely not 20%




So very sorry if I was mistaken in that stat...I completely believed that I had read (or heard) that up to 15-20% of birthweight loss was normal in some infants...

The rest of my advice I stand by...

yeah....I just wanted to point that out. I had one that had the same problems....with my first my milk didn't come in til he was 9 days old...and they were ok with 10%....they were still ok with 12-13% loss, but any more then that and they had wanted to hospitalize him and "make" me start giving formula. 20% though is definitely way past needing intervention.

Kim...what kind of pump do you have? If it isn't hospital grade then it probably won't stimulate enough for it to do any good anyway...esp when you are talking stimulating to make the milk come in.


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RE: Royal.Fortress (Kim's) June Bug-Catching Thread - 6/15/2008 9:24:54 AM   
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My DS was 6 lbs, 6 oz. at birth & had some similar feeding issues. The advice given me was to nurse him from both breasts and THEN give him formula. Sounds as though each practice does things a little differently. At one point, I was also told to wake him EVERY 2 hours and feed him as he wasn't gaining weight properly. Well, I tried that for a night or two without him ever waking up. Finally I figured he would wake me up when HE was hungry. He refused to operate by someone else's schedule and would often only feed every 3 or 4 hours (and this was as a newborn).

Obviously, he ended up growing fine. He's now 5 years old and weighs in around 43/44 pounds and is 44 inches tall. Those were his last measurements which puts him around the 90% for height and right in the middle for weight!

I'll be praying for you and little Gwen. Earlier you mentioned that you would let us know the docs reasoning for the advice they have given; therefore, I'm eagerly waiting (esp. when you mentioned it had something to do with your birth story). Regardless, I will patiently wait until YOU are ready to write it up. Enjoy this time with your little girl. Before you know it, she'll be 5 like my son. It really does go THAT fast!

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RE: Royal.Fortress (Kim's) June Bug-Catching Thread - 6/15/2008 1:48:22 PM   
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how are ya today kim? Doing well I hope! Hopefully your milk is in, or coming in.
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RE: Royal.Fortress (Kim's) June Bug-Catching Thread - 6/15/2008 6:31:14 PM   
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Congratulations, Kim!!!! What a beautiful little girl!
And I love the name!
Praying for you, Brad, and Gwendolyn. I hope your milk is in and things are improving!
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RE: Royal.Fortress (Kim's) June Bug-Catching Thread - 6/15/2008 6:39:35 PM   
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Praying for you Kim and Gwen, hopefully the nursing is ALOT better today and things are going well

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RE: Royal.Fortress (Kim's) June Bug-Catching Thread - 6/15/2008 8:58:20 PM   
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Thanks for all the prayers and advice, ladies!! My milk is definitely on it's way in and Gwen is much easier to wake up to nurse and eager to feed She was up 3 oz today - hooray!!!

For those who expressed concern over my topping up after ONE breast - they were concerned about the 10% because after that, by law they are required to refer to a ped, which would have meant we would have to go into hospital! I was literally feeding for 1.5 hours out of 2 that first day and she still lost the 10% by day two ... normally weight loss maxes out on day 3, so that's why they were being so aggressive. It's working fine, though, and thanks for your concerns!!

She's so beautiful ... I can't believe she's mine!!! It was fun saying Happy Father's Day to Brad today He is soooooo sweet with her ... I can't believe how good a daddy he is!

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RE: Royal.Fortress (Kim's) June Bug-Catching Thread - 6/15/2008 9:20:43 PM   
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Kim, I am so glad that things are looking up with your BFing concerns. I will continue to pray.

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RE: Royal.Fortress (Kim's) June Bug-Catching Thread - 6/15/2008 9:26:32 PM   
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Glad to hear things are doing better and you have a good health team around you supporting you and little Gwen.
You guys have Father's Day different to us, that's so cool she was born in time for him!

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RE: Royal.Fortress (Kim's) June Bug-Catching Thread - 6/17/2008 11:34:12 AM   
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Kim, YAY YAY YAY!!! I am SO excited for you! I'm practically squealing over here

Try not to worry about all the feedings, we did that with Gabby for 8 weeks and it WILL end, I promise :)

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RE: Royal.Fortress (Kim's) June Bug-Catching Thread - 6/17/2008 1:30:36 PM   
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Kim, glad things are looking up with the breastfeeding. I remember what it's like having a baby that seems permanently latched on to the breast, but it doesn't last forever, and it's actually good for supply.

Enjoy her!

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RE: Royal.Fortress (Kim's) June Bug-Catching Thread - 6/17/2008 1:51:52 PM   
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Glad to hear things are going better for you. I had to give my baby some formula in the hospital because he was getting dehydrated, and it didn't hurt our BFing relationship one little bit. Your medical team was right to be concerned.

You're doing a great job!
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RE: Royal.Fortress (Kim's) June Bug-Catching Thread - 6/17/2008 2:20:12 PM   
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Glad to hear things are going better for you. I had to give my baby some formula in the hospital because he was getting dehydrated, and it didn't hurt our BFing relationship one little bit. Your medical team was right to be concerned.

You're doing a great job!


It didn't hurt our relationship in the beginning either, sometimes it is necessary.

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RE: Royal.Fortress (Kim's) June Bug-Catching Thread - 6/17/2008 3:34:33 PM   
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Congratulations Kim!!!! She is so beautiful!!!!!!!


I will pray for your bf problems, we also supplemented and had a horrible beginning but it does and and persevering is SO worth it!


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RE: Royal.Fortress (Kim's) June Bug-Catching Thread - 6/18/2008 3:27:25 PM   
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Awww, thanks for the support, ladies!! It's been tough, but so, so, so wonderful!!

Quick update and then I'm off for a nap!

I can't believe Gwen is a week old tomorrow ... it's going by so fast! Brad has to go back to work tomorrow so my mom came up yesterday and is staying until at least Friday ... and probably coming up for nights on the weekend.

Breastfeeding is going INCREDIBLY well - we were able to wean back the top-ups on Monday to 5 - 10 mL every other feed, and I was able to consistently pump ~ 5 mL between, so we were feeding her and topping her up with my milk ... such a difference in her poor little intestines! Yesterday they weighed her and she was up to 5 lb 13 oz - so only 2 oz away from birth weight!!! So no more top-ups and we're allowed to let her go 3 hours between feeds. It's been so nice so actually get some sleep in between

My craziest update is that I managed to develop a blood clot! My midwives were (understandably) very concerned that it was a DVT (hello pulmonary embolism and 3 - 4 day hospitalization for heparin treatment), so we went to the ER yesterday and I had an ultrasound and such. Turns out it's very superficial, so we're treating it with rest, elevation, heat, compression, and anti-inflammatories - praise the Lord! It was a bit terrifying, though ... especially after the feeding issues and some CRAZY sleeplessness.

Long story short, things have been brutal, but all is now well!

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