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crazedmom -> RE: I Saved a Spot For You On The Beach... (6/10/2008 10:46:03 PM)
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Well, I've been saving a spot for you, 2shaye! Nice of you to join us! [:D] Thanks for the wedding ideas, etc. The guest list stands at about 150-175 right now. That is too funny about the 33 years thing too! Speaking of being an unobtrusive m-i-l... it hit me last night that perhaps I was taking on more than necessary. Well, I really should say it was the Lord whispering to my soul when He said, "I'm relieving you of this burden." Aren't you glad he deals with us so gently most of the time? Well, I guess I took the cues from my son that they didn't have a clue as to where to begin, as they needed help desperately. In reality, I need to let them do what they can and I'll do what they ask of me. (In my defense, ds did ask me to do some tasks.) :) When did the roles so drastically change? I'm the Mom afterall! I used to be able to be in control, help the kids, have a say; but now I'm somewhat unnecessary. Can you say, "Ouch"? I was browsing in our Goodwill Bookstore today and picked up a couple of wedding info. books. My feathers really became ruffled when I read their description of the role of the Mother of the Groom. They said, "It has been said that the mother of the groom should wear beige and keep her mouth closed and enjoy the day." Well! I never!... So, we're having them over for dinner on Sun. to discuss the wedding plans along with her mother. I think it'll be very good and we'll all understand what is expected of us better then. You've probably seen all the movies where the parents act out so much when it comes to the planning of the wedding... Well, we'll be nothing like that, I guarantee you. But, it still presents its challenges; especially when it appears the parents of the bride are not contributing whatsoever to the wedding. Well, that's my drama for today... ruffled feathers and all! [&:] As to the presidential election... Yes, McCain it will be for many of us; although, as I've said, I don't know anyone who is terribly excited by him. It'll be interesting to see him debate Obama. I pray that until then, he gets lots of p.r. training or acting lessons, something...
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