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KPOP -> RE: Family beginnings (7/4/2008 3:19:19 AM)
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HI THERE.
I HAVE NOT YET RAISE A FAMILY -- SO HAVE NOT BE BTDT
BUT I THINK A PERSON KNOWS WHEN TO START A FAMILY -- HE OR SHE WOULDN'T WANT TO FIND OUT -- HE OR SHE WOULD KNOW -- AND ACTS ON IT
BUT IF YOU NEED AN ADVISE
ARE YOU READY FINANCIALLY?
DO YOU HAVE A NICE HEALTH OR MEDICAL INSURANCE FOR YOUR FAMILY
CAN YOU AFFORD TO HAVE A BACK YARD FOR YOUR KIDS
CAN YOU AFFORD TO HAVE FRUIT TREES IN YOUR BACK YARD
CAN YOU AFFORD NOT TO GO TO WORK -- AND ONLY THE MAN WORK?
CAN YOU AFFORD TO STAY UP ALL NIGHT -- AND TAKE CARE OF A CHILD
CAN YOU AFFORD OR HAVE THE TIME -- TO BRING YOUR CHILD TO A DAY CARE -- OR PRE SCHOOL -- SO BOTH OF YOU CAN GO TO WORK -- IF YOU PLANT TO?
CAN YOU AFFORD TO MOVE INTO A BIGGER PLACE
CAN YOU AFFORD TO BUY THEM CLOTHES?
DO YOU HAVE A CUSHION TO FALL BACK TO
DO YOU KNOW HOW OFTEN TO FEED AN INFANT? NEWLY BORN?
DID YOU HAVE EVER PETS OR EVER TAKEN CARE OF A CHILD FOR A WHOLE THREE MONTHS?
ALL JUST BY YOURSELF?
IF YOU FEEL THAT YOU ARE NOT ABLE TO ANSWER THE QUESTIONS ABOVE COMFORTABLY OR YOU DO NOT FEEL GOOD ABOUT IT
THEN I THINK I WOULD WAIT
IT IS HARD TO BRING A LIFE INTO THE WORLD -- IF YOU ARE NOT ABLE TO
I MYSELF -- I AM NOT READY
BUT I CANNOT WAIT TO HAVE FOSTER KIDS -- OR FRIENDS KIDS TO COME OVER
AND I NEED TO WAIT ON MY HUSBAND'S TIMING AND GOD'S TIMING
MY HUSBAND KNOWS I HOW FEEL ABOUT IT
DOES YOUR HUSBAND KNOW?
GOOD LUCK
KATHY
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