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deermousie -> RE: A daughter seeking prayer....... (8/1/2008 5:52:52 PM)
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ORIGINAL: Chantelle913
I notice that when I would pay him attention he gets mad and treats me really mean. I seriously think that one day he will hurt my mom. He has put his hands on her before when I was younger and when I called the police she defended him and told the police I was wrong and nothin didn't happen.
This is a man and a woman in a abusive relationship. This guy is emotionally trying to suck you into the "game" and you're not falling for it. Good. But the off and on relationship of your mom and her husband and the potential for violence is sick. Build up tension, explode, mom leaves, he plays nice, she comes back (refuses to tell police at any point), repeat. Typical behavior for a wife abuser, and he found a woman who will play the part of the abused wife. It's her choice and sick relationship, too. It takes two to tango.
This is so far from what God intended. And your mom is going along with it (a healthier woman would say "I won't put up with this. Change or else")
You are wise to stay out of it. It's not your choice whether they do this dance together or not; they choose to do this. You can stay or leave, but I understand how hard it is for you to watch this sick duet.
Please go talk to your pastor, and you might want to write things on the calendar that happen so if this ever goes to court, you have documentation. If it does turn violent, get out of the house immediately, call the police, and don't be where he can find you until he cools down. And if it gets violent, move out immediately; it could spill over on you.
Lord Jesus, I live this sister up to you and ask that you would give her wisdom, safety, comfort and peace. I pray that her mom and husband would see their sin, confess and repent it and let You heal their lives and make this marriage what You intend marriage to be. I ask it in Your holy name, amen.
God bless you, dear one. You won't be in this situation forever. (((Hugs)))
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